Hello again everyone. Thank you all for your kind, encouraging and thoughtful messages of concern and support for me, Dad and the family over the past few weeks. It's been a very worrying time to say the least, and completely unexpected. What was supposed to be a 3-5 day hospital stay for Dad, for a relatively simple back operation turned into a four week intensive care stay, emergency surgery and so many post surgery complications it was unbelievable.
However, he is now finally back home and recuperating. It will be a long and slow process of recovery, but he has the most amazing fighting spirit and will get there.
Now to our little life. I'm getting more gigantic and more cumbersome by the day. I am really struggling with the sheer physical exhaustion of this pregnancy, not just because I have a 2 and 5 year old to look after, but because I just turned 43 and this old body ain't what it used to be. By mid afternoon I just can't put one foot in front of the other any more and have to lie down, just to take a load off. I also suffer terribly from a thing called Pubic Symphisis which is basically a very painful and constant grinding of the pelvic bones which can separate during pregnancy due to the relaxing of the ligaments in preparation for birth. I've suffered from it every time. It's a nightmare walking, sitting, lying down, turning over in bed and pretty much any movement, so makes things very tiring and frustrating. Can't believe I have another 11 weeks to go! God give me strength!
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We had a nice short break in Noosa for my birthday and took my grandmother and my husband's mum with us, who was visiting from the UK. I've never been pregnant in warm weather and always been rugged up in winter clothes at this stage, so bearing my bulging belly was a first and took some courage, but felt to nice to be weightless and free in the water.
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| Me in all my glory! |
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| An afternoon boat trip on the river. |
| Some birthday balloons and pressies await. |
| The kids unwrapping my presents for me! |
Now to the house which I have neglected for the past month or so and actually enjoyed the break from worrying about it. I have been in a rut trying to finish the rooms, one of the reasons is because I am struggling trying to work out where to put my desk and computer. They are such a necessary evil, just like TVs, but you can't deny that we need and use them daily. So there doesn't seem much point putting them in a cupboard or hiding them away, when sometimes we spend hours at them. They are ugly though and all the cords, wires, printers etc just spoil a beautifully decorated room, but I'm determined to find a way to incorporate them. I would love to have a dedicated office like some of these though.
........then I could include a craft area and just spread out with all my creative accoutrements and not have to worry about the mess. We did have a spare room, but it's now set to become a nursery!
I wish I had used more foresight when designing the house, so that I could have had a built in desk and shelves etc, even in a cupboard or nook somewhere or under the stairs like those in these images. A corner of the kitchen would have been perfect, but we were a bit starved for room there so it wasn't really an option.
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So now all I have room for is a corner of the living room, where I am going to trade my large, modern white Freedom desk for something more furniture like and less obvious. Problem is the iMac is so enormous, it's hard to make it inconspicuous. I have tried it in the library (dark blue room), but we spend our nights there watching TV and generally eating dinner on our laps, so I don't want to be there all day too. So it's going to have to go back to the living room, which isn't ideal but no other option.
If I can make a nice and pretty little area look like these, it hopefully will blend in.
I think the key is not having officey looking furniture, so that the space just blends in with the rest of the room. ie no big office chair, more subtle filing cabinets (or none if possible), a pretty lamp and accessories, and set up the printer with wireless connection so it can go in the hall cupboard.
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Now here are some images of big iMacs that look pretty good to me as part of the decorative living space. Maybe I can make it work. The trick is hiding all the other messy bits and pieces like cords and cables, power points, adapters, power boards, printers etc.
I've just ordered a couple of white bamboo chairs, so maybe one could be a desk chair. I do love how they look.
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The other option is getting an armoire or cabinet with doors that can be closed so that the whole mess can be hidden away when I'm not using the computer or when we have visitors.
Where do you keep your computer? Any ideas or tips?
I'll let you know how it progresses. Plus I've almost finished Charlie's and Poppy's bedrooms and will hopefully be able to show you in the next few weeks. My stencils finally arrived, so I have to work out where to use them. Goodness, this is a long and drawn out process......thanks for being so patient!
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Hi Melinda, You look absolutely gorgeous pregnant. Your children are so beautiful I know they must be excited to meet their new sibling. I have a lap top that I use at the kitchen table, but when I serve meals I just move it easily. We have the big computer in the den on a desk. That room has a TV, desk, recumbent bike and a leather recliner for watching sports for the hubbs!! Hang in there, you will figure it out and it will be amazing, xo Kathysue
ReplyDeleteFirstly very happy that your dad is on the mend. A great relief.
ReplyDeleteSecond you look absolutely beautiful. I had PS too and it was horrible. I was 41 with my last so 43 would be even harder.
Loving your desk and nook inspiration. Makes me want to clean up and restyle my kitchen nook. It seems to gather junk I can'r fit in the cupboards
I see you have a ticket to blogopolois. it's June 30 so hope you are fine to go.
So happy all is back on track for you.
Carolyn
Your children are SO cute! Quite adorable - especially that shot of you and your tummy, with them and their big eyes of wonder. Ah, you are making me clucky...
ReplyDeleteFabulous news that your dad is on the road to recovery. A very stressful time! xx
You look fab pregnant! Good on you!
ReplyDeleteWe keep our bulky pc and printer etc in the kids rumpus room upstairs, and for convenience we have an iPad which is great for browsing, it's portability and doesn't take up any space! I love it!
I had ordered a stencil from Royal Design Studio (did I get the name right?) in the US last year and it also took forever to turn up. It then took me two afternoons to stencil the wall behind our bed head in the master room, and I gotta say it looks sensational! So happy with it! Everyone first thinks it's wallpaper until I tell them I stenciled it! Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy! Mx
Good news about your dad. You're looking fab! Hope you manage to get lots of rest.
ReplyDeleteI switched to a MacBook. No messy cords etc. Never looked back.
TDM xx
Of course I read with interest your computer space dilemas... but I so love a picture of a preggy tummy...especially now I'm past that. You look soooo gorgeous! Such a beautiful stage of life; full of promise, love and excitement for the future! I didn't have dream pregnancies or births (far from it) but in hindsight, relished the experience that I was very lucky to have x 3. Love your candid pics.... enjoy!
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P.S: So good to hear that your father is recovering after such a stressfull and worrying time.
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OK heres my comments 1. You are one hot mama pregnant, you look better in a bikini 7 months pregnant than I would say 90% of non pregnant women! You go girl......wow!!!!
ReplyDelete2. Your kids are just the cutest, their little precious faces make me smile
3. I hope your dad is on the mend and getting stronger every day..how scary. I didn't know about this but was missing in action here myself for some time too.
4. Hope you continue to feel well because you look AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!
Melinda you look divine and much love to you and your Dad. When was your birthday? Mine was last week :) I luckily have a computer nook in this new house and my husband is a whiz with all those cords. They seem to have all disappeared. Can't wait to see the kids' rooms! x
ReplyDeleteWOW Melinda, you look FANTASTIC, your kids are such cuties. I have a laptop so its easy to just tuck it away out of sight. i love your inspiration pics!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the little one, you look fabulous! And my commiserations on the pregnancy pains, been there, done that. Can I ask where you're getting your bamboo chair from? I'm struggling to find one myself!
ReplyDeleteCould your family possibly be any cuter, Mel, and you look fabulous!! So happy your Dad is better - lots going on for you right now...Love all of the office images - perfect inspiration. I use my laptop at a desk we have in the kitchen and then move it to the den at night and use it on my lap...not good, I know!
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ReplyDeleteWonderful news about your dad and you look great!!!
Your on track with a less obtrusive desk, cane chair, lovely lamp. Try and find a desk that has an overhung top so you can fix the cords with some plastic latches to the underside of top or back of desk.
Feed them along the desk to where powerpoint is (you may have to get one installed) and then place a plant, filing cabinet or cute storage cabinet to cover socket and cords. Hang in there and don't rush that's when mistakes happen.
AJx
I've been following for a while and thought it was time to say hello!
ReplyDeleteYou look beautiful and the photo with your children is gorgeous! Glad to hear your Dad is on the mend. Must have been an awful time for you all!
Looking for ideas for office space as well and these photos are so inspiring! Loving the one with the pale timber desk top... look forward to seeing what you come up with. I have no doubt it will look amazing!
Nel x
You look so fabulous and the kids look very happy. I'm so glad you all had such a lovely holiday together and that your dad is getting better. Stay well and enjoy the last 11 weeks; it's such a special time. Have a lovely weekend. Annie x.
ReplyDeleteHope you had a lovely birthday, gorgeous photos and some fabulous ideas.x
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, Melinda, I feel your pain. My second was 10 lbs and 10 days late and I couldn't get off the floor if I sat down to play with my 20 month old... and that was 12 years ago! Love your office inspiration and think Steve Jobs was a genius to create a computer that looks good in any space. Love my Mac!
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P.S. So glad your dad is out of the woods...
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Hi Mel,
ReplyDeleteFirstly, what a relief that your father is finally on the mend. What a difficult and worrying time. Wishing him a problem-free recovery from hereon.
You look so delightful pregnant! What a shame you are suffering from PS. Awful. I suffered from it in my final pregnancy (of 4) and I still remember the pain from it and how difficult it made everything after 3 uncomplicated, very active pregnancies. Towards the end I could only get comfortable and sleep in a semi-sitting position. I ended up loaning a "Jason Recliner Rocker" on my obstetrician's advice, which was a godsend as it was the only way I could get some sleep! It's funny - I'd all but forgotten about it till you mentioned it. Thankfully it (the PS) was over with the pregnancy and the only (physical) reminder was a gorgeous little boy!
As far as computers go - I use a MacBook Pro laptop and love it. I keep it on the kitchen bench during the day if I am home - and find it's portability brilliant. I can work wherever the mood takes me (Dining table, desk, couch....) and pop it in a drawer when done. Our two "Big Macs" sit side by side on a table/desk in the Family Room - as I like to keep an eye on what the children are up to. The wires are easy to hide (plastic latches under the table-top overhang as AJ described.) We have wireless and the router/modem are placed in another room out of sight.
I think because the Macs are so visually attractive - even though they are large - they still look good. I would prefer them out of the family room, but, as you say, a "necessary evil" - and I like to keep them close (the children and the computers!)
I love all of the images you posted - so much inspiration there!
Take care, x
Hi Melinda. So glad to hear your dad is getting better. Your trip to Noosa looked like a well earned break. I'm looking forward to seeing the children's bedrooms. I'm afraid I'm no help with the computer/desk quandary. I'm having the same dilemma as you at the moment!!! Your pictures though are very inspiring and have given me some fresh ideas. Enjoy your weekend. Ange
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